Met up with an old friend the other day, who put down her gloves to pursue the world of yoga. And just as her adventures with muay thai, she grabbed yoga with both hands. Moved to India for 6 months to study, live and breathe yoga – and when we met, she said this about relationships: ‘The best balance is when someone who needs to love, finds together with someone who need to be loved’.
If you think about it, it can make perfect sense. There is a giver and a taker. Nothing and no one is 100% one thing of course. The giver needs to be loved too – but maybe not as much, as the person who needs to be loved. Likewise the person who needs to be loved, will also love the giver – at least in my world. I can’t picture two people staying together for a long time without any love between them.
Would this also explain if one person feel ‘too good’ for the other person , and therefore holding back on committing?
I guess if relationship could be had with yourself, it would be more simple. Anyways.. yoga thoughts for thought!
1½ hour Muay thai with KruToy in Butchers Fight Gym